SEATTLE -- (KCPQ) -- Lena Winters, the mother of missing 15-year-old Lily Christopherson of Bonney Lake, says her daughter’s story can be a teaching moment for other parents and teens about being vigilant with technology.
Day after day, the sobs and worry overwhelm Winters. “Every day is harder than the last,” she says.
It has been 19 days since her daughter Lily went missing. Family members believe Lily left home after agreeing to meet with someone on social media.
“I think this will be a wake-up call, hopefully for a lot of girls right now that are going to see this on the news, that things are dangerous. That’s why we tell you not to do them,” said Winters.
She says she had several conversations with Lily about certain apps and online safety.
“Be very active and watch. Talk with your daughters. Even when I would have her phone, her friends would just give her an old device. So, no matter how much I tried to monitor her, every kid out there has an old device and they’re willing to hand it over,” said Winters.
She adds that when she’d check Lily’s phone, she’d see apps for Facebook and Instagram, which she knew Lily was using, but what she didn’t know is that Lily was logging into other apps through the web browser.
“Scenarios like this, this mother is right, this is an amazing opportunity, an incredible teachable moment, in the worst kind of way. Merely looking for an app on the phone is not going to tell you that the app is not being used,” said Linda Criddle, a cybersecurity specialist.
Criddle says parents should also check their child’s browser history if the history has been deleted that should be a red flag. She advises parents also check every browser.
“You may be looking at Internet Explorer and they may be doing all their bad stuff on Chrome,” said Criddle.
She adds that apps can also be disguised using other icons on the phone. She says if a child wants something online, these days they can usually figure out a way to do it.
“I’m not saying don’t put your foot down at times, you need to, and age-appropriate and behavior appropriate but what really needs to happen is the conversation,” said Criddle. “They have to start really early before they’re relevant.”
KFOR / Pottawatomie County